Trusting God can be tough. Let’s look at five ways we as humans try to trust God in our lives… but come up short. Then, we’ll look at some solutions to these pitfalls.
Frustration. Impatience. Anger.
What happens when you’re doing everything within your own power to make something happen and it’s still not happening?
You’re sending out resumes, going to interviews, leaving no stone unturned… but still no job.
You’re taking care of yourself, eating real food, exercising, giving your stress to God… but your health problems persist.
You’re praying and doing everything you can to reach out to that person you love… but they’re still as cold as ice.
What happens when you do everything you can do and yet… nothing’s working?
I AM who I AM.
Be still and know that I am God.
God has been teaching me this lesson lately. Just when you think you’ve got things under control in life, well… you realize you don’t. And maybe that’s exactly the point.
Maybe realizing there’s nothing we can do is exactly where we need to be.
What is trusting God, really?
Trusting God is what Job said after he lost all his kids, his possessions, and his health. “The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away. Blessed be the name of the Lord.”
Can you bless and worship the Lord right where you are, today? Despite the sickness, the pain, the worries, the bad circumstances?
Let’s look at a few ways that we, in our human frailty, try to trust God – but come up short. We’ll also look at how to remedy this.
Trusting God is not…
1. Praying, studying, and obeying God so that you’ll receive a blessing
Sometimes we can unintentionally use our focus on God as a way to “fix things.” For example: “I’m a Christian! I pray! I study my Bible! But I still have this problem. God should have fixed this already!”
This is understandable. Nobody wants to hurt. It’s our nature to want to feel happy, be healthy, and have all our needs met.
I’m so guilty of this, guys. Of thinking that if I do everything right, my problems will be solved. I heard a preacher say this once and it really convicted me:
Do you really love God – or do you love His stuff?
In other words, do you desire the blessings He can give you more than God himself?
It’s something to consider.
You may be thinking, “That’s true, but how do I cultivate a greater love for God?” While we may not have all the answers, it starts with a relationship.
⇒ The remedy: Spend time with God, just to get to know Him better. Try to have no ulterior motives. Pray and study – not to find the answers for your problem, but to discover more about your Creator. This is where joy resides.
2. Relying on our own strength
Guys, this can happen without us even realizing it sometimes. After all, 2 + 2 = 4. If I do all the right things, surely the desired outcome will follow.
Maybe you didn’t intend to rely on your own strength. I get it. It’s human nature to try to fix whatever problems arise.
But when you think you’ve just GOT to have whatever it is you’re wanting – that you can’t live without it – you’ve stepped into the realm of self-reliance.
We think: “This is so uncomfortable. It’s got to be fixed, and NOW. How am I going to cope otherwise?”
These are surefire signs that we’ve stopped relying on Christ alone but on our own abilities. Because we can’t imagine not having what we’re praying for.
How can we remedy this weakness that we so often face?
⇒ The remedy: Think about your life. If you never got what you are praying for, if the answer was no, would God still take care of you? I hope you can see that the answer to this question is a resounding YES. Remember Paul’s pleading with God to take away his struggle? God said, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
3. Thinking that faith will make your problem go away
Sometimes Satan lies to us and makes us think that if we really trusted God, we wouldn’t be dealing with said problem.
It might be tempting to think, “If I really trusted God, He would give me what I’m asking for.”
This is a lie from Satan to discourage us and make us beat ourselves up.
Problems are sometimes a result of our bad choices, but sometimes they’re not. Sometimes they’re a test of our faith – and we can pass the test!
⇒The remedy: Realize that all people of faith have experienced times of trials. This does not mean their faith was weak – in fact, the opposite is true. Remember, God said to Satan, “Have you considered my servant Job?” He saw Job as being worthy of experiencing a trial.
4. Extreme overthinking
Sometimes we get so wrapped up in what we are wanting, it fills all our thoughts and even our prayers!
You may be thinking, “Well, there’s nothing wrong with trying to find solutions to our problems. We need to be responsible for what is going on.”
In a sense, this is true (we’ll look at this idea next). But there is a difference in giving your problems to God and trying to sort them out with His help, and worrying.
Sometimes it’s hard to distinguish if we’re pondering over an issue or worrying about it. I love this quote from Joyce Meyer in her book Seven Things That Steal Your Joy:
As soon as you become confused, you have left off pondering and gone into excessive reasoning.
I think this is a really good indicator of when we have stepped over the line into worry.
⇒ The remedy: Philippians 4 is really the key here. Pray about your problems, talk about them to God as much as you need. Confess that you are not able to figure this problem out. Then, go on and enjoy your life while you wait for an answer.
5. Doing nothing
Maybe your struggle is the polar opposite from all the other pitfalls we discussed. The other 4 are about trying to work, work, work to fix your problems. If you think trusting God means doing absolutely nothing to work toward a solution, this applies to you.
Yes, God has 100% complete control on what happens in our lives. There is nothing we can do in our own power to fix our problems.
BUT He has given us His spirit and His power – and the ability to do things! He has given us the mind of Christ and wisdom to discern right from wrong. We cannot think that just because we are relying on God, that means we don’t have to do our part.
Nothing wrong with working on a issue – as long as we surrender it to the One in control.
⇒ The remedy: God gave you a strong body, a smart mind, and His spirit to guide you. You can do lots of things to work toward a solution for your situation. Pray and make a list of things that you can do today to start working through the problem. Just remember not to let this solution become your idol.
Remember, if you’re struggling with trusting God – seek Him, rely on Him, and do your part. Aside from that, enjoy your life and pray anytime you are tempted to worry about your situation. God is working behind the scenes to make something beautiful out of your life for His glory.
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Do you have any other tips on trusting God? I’d love to hear in the comments!