Daily family devotional time is the best thing we have implemented in our parenting repertoire. And it’s not because we are such good parents – in fact, for a long time it was something we aspired to do but never made it happen. Subconsciously, I think we were overwhelmed by the idea, as if we had to plan a discussion for every daily devotional.
Then, we got to witness the daily family devotional my sister’s family had during our Christmas celebrations. That’s when we realized a daily family devotional did not need to be elaborate in order to be hugely beneficial. They were super simple, consisting of a couple songs, a prayer, and possibly a Bible verse. Watching our niece, we could tell she loved the Bible and was participating with the songs already, even though she was only a year old!
Our boys enjoyed the daily family devotional so much, we decided to make it our New Years resolution – and thanks to our simple routine, it actually stuck! (Also thanks to our 3 year old who, no matter how tired we were, would insist we never missed a night.)
These devotional times have proven to be so valuable for our family – we all feel happier and more open in our communication. Our devos have changed a bit in structure since the beginning. Here’s the rundown on what we do.
Singing (2-3 songs)
We usually do a more serious one (like Jesus Loves Me or Blue Skies and Rainbows) and a more silly “kid” song (like I’ve Got the Joy, Joy Down in My Heart or With Christ As My Vessel – watch the video here to learn this one). Our boys love standing in front and “leading” the songs. My parents even gave us a kids podium and pew to use.
“Our Favorite Things”
This has become such a fun tradition for us. We go around the circle, and each person tells what their favorite thing was from that day. Our oldest son likes to be silly and tell each person a different number of things to share. Even our “baby” gives thanks – every night he says “Da Da Da!” This has been a great way to teach the kids (and us) to count our blessings! Even on the worst of days, we can all find things to be thankful for.
After mentioning who or what we need to pray about, our oldest is in charge of saying the prayer. I love hearing his prayers develop over time!
Sometimes we will quote a memory verse too, but most nights we just stick to the above routine.
See? Super simple! No research or planning ahead required (unless that’s your thing – go for it)!
Something else to add to family Bible time (not necessary, but nice):
“Bible for Kids” app: this is a great thing to download if you have an iPhone or iPad. It’s free by YouVersion and tells Bible stories for kids in a cute and animated way. Sometimes Richard uses this with the boys if we have extra time. Gabriel has been able to tell me an entire Bible story because of this app. They also have created an actual storybook if you want prefer a non-digital version.
Try incorporating these ideas and watch how it draws your family closer. I think this has also led to our nightly “talks” in our three year old’s bed – it’s his favorite thing and ours too!
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Do you have daily family devotional time? What ideas have you tried?